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hi im back again with my two feet.. after breaking up kay patrick.. im still kicking pa rin.. i've learn a lot from patrick.. kaya thankful parin ako at nagkakilala kami.. hay..

I Want My Ex Back :
Before you Talk to your Ex :

-Give it time, if it's meant to be you'll be back together
-Give subtle messages that you can live without your ex,
-Work on how you can improve your own life

-time heals relationships
-independence makes you better, no one likes a very needy person who whines all the time
-Working on your own life can make you very interesting, and can get your mind of your ex

I know it's hard to pretend to be this... cold but it's better than phoning your ex over and over again trying to talk to him/her, or showing her that he/she's your one and only world,

i still think alot about my ex, and i can't accept the fact that it's over, but i would rather try to move on, she might move on with me

I Want My Ex Back :
Before you Talk to your Ex :

So the guy who told you he would love you and be with forever has suddenly ripped out your heart and split it into two pieces. Why? What did you do that was so wrong? Why can't he see that you love him and are willing to make this work?
First of all he is guy, women and men are from completely different planets. Men love achievement over committment and women value commitment over achievement.
You need to establish why you want him back. Ladies I want you all to ask yourself this question. If you knew your ex would never date another girl for the rest of his life, would you still want him back? Sometimes we want them back because the thought of having to see them with another girl is too much to handle. However if you find yourself thinking about them all them time and your ex says he feels or does the same then maybe there is something there. Let me tell you, if it seems like your ex is not upset at all about the breakup you are wrong. There is no way ne1 can leave a relationship for a certain period of time with no feelings at all. So you want him back in your life girls pay close attention to these steps that can bring you closer together.

1) Realize that you are a girl, did you stop looking pretty for your man? Maybe you guys were together for so long that you never did your hair ne more or got all dressed up. Ask your ex to go for a walk with you even if it is just for 15 mins. Make sure when he sees you, you look stunning, like the girl he frist fell inlove with. men are visual creatures, if you look great chances are he wont be able to get you off his mind and start thinking about you.

2) Make sure you keep contact with him. Call him maybe once a week no more. Try and have one or two get togethers. However when you see him don't let him no how much you miss him even though you are crying inside ! Smile a lot and most of all look really good from now on every time he sees you!

3) When you get to the point where you have spent time together as friends tell him you need to have a seriouse convo with him. Explain to him you have been thinking a lot about what happened between you and you are not ready to give up the best thing that happened to you. Tell him you don't deserve a guy like him, that NEVER FAILS chances are he will tell you that you do and will flatter him. yes ladies we have to bring ourseleves down to this level but hey do you want him back or not? Also admit to him that you realize you could have been a better gf ( now this depends on why you broke up, if it was you for whatever reason admit that you were the one who was wrong take responsibility)

4) Keep talking to him and spending time with him let him see what he is missing out on, if this is true love and you were supposed to be together everything will work out

Breakups are so hard, don't let it control your life. Let your ex see what he is missing out on and most of all let him see how much you really cared about him and that you are willing to change
best of wishes

I Want My Ex Back :
Before you Talk to your Ex :

Never beg your ex to take you back. This will only make them feel pressure and pull away from you more. Stop calling constantly and professing your love. It only makes you seem needy and like you are nothing without them.

Instead, show that you care for them, but you are willing to wait. Be happy, be content. Your ex doesn't want to be with a clingy, unhappy person. He or she wants to be with a happy, content person. So the more happy you can become, by pursuing your interests and making a new life for yourself, the more your ex will be curious.

How long does the pain last?

There´s no set answer on how long it will take you to get over a breakup. If you have wanted to get out of a relationship for a while, the breakup might actually seem a relief and you might be completely over it in a few weeks. However, if it was a shock to you, and especially if there were betrayals involved, it can take a really long time to mend yourself.

Give yourself the time. Spend some time with yourself, and a lot with friends, and do things you enjoy. Go on a trip, even if it´s just for a weekend. It may seem like the end of the world, but everyone on the planet has experienced these heartaches, just like yours. You´ll come through it a stronger person.

Breaking Up :
 :Recovering from a Breakup
Broken Heart Bandaid

Dr. Joy Browne, clinical psychologist and nationally syndicated radio talk show host, says:
1) Make a list of all the good and bad points of your ex-love. (Most people rollercoaster between the two. By putting them all in the same place, you may find a middle ground.)
2) Have a pity party. You might as well get all the grieving out as soon as possible. Play "our" song. Remember the dimples, first date, great kisses, etc. Stay in bed and eat chocolates for a whole day.
3) Don´t call your lost love for at least six months!
4) Don´t talk to your friends about your lost love. They´ll REALLY appreciate it.
5) Write a personal ad but don´t place it for six months.
6) Workout, exercise A LOT !
7) Join a club, learn a new skill, work on a political campaign. JUST DON´T DATE!
8) Get Out! Don´t put yourself under house arrest.
9) Stay away from alcohol and any other drugs.
10)Remember all the other ex´s... your next love is always an improvement. SO ON TO THE NEXT!!!

U KNOW WAT... JULY 23, 2005... ITS THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE...  finally KAMI na ni mr. PATRICK AYAP... pero dati un...

 

 

ngayn... so sad.. wala na kmi.. pero i still loved him.. and damn me.. it was all my fault... i never treated him right... he never felt my loved... i never open any problems to him and worst......  malalaman nya pa un sa iba... nasaktan cya sympre... tangina kahit ako masasaktan nun...

 

 

kung pwede ko lan ibalik ang nakaraan....

 

 

i want him back

 

break na kmi